How to Use Neuroscience to Get the Life You Want by Changing Your Negative Childhood Memories
If you feel stuck on a long road of struggle, pain, and limiting patterns, therapy isn’t always enough to get on a better path. Your implicit memories control the navigation of your entire life, and they take root in your subconscious during childhood.
You can’t build a time machine to change what happened in your childhood, but with the right tools, you can learn how to rebuild negative childhood memories into positive empowerment.
Combining neuroscience, psychology, and personal experiences, Change What Happened to You shares Odille and Steve Remmert’s unique, proven memory-editing process with the power to transform your mind, behavior, and happiness. With step-by-step techniques for foundational self-love, this guide will help you change your implicit memories so you can heal from the negativity of your childhood and reroute your life toward the positive destination you desire.
You’re about to learn:
- 3 steps to change negative childhood memories without blame, guilt, or shame.
- How your childhood shapes your self-image, worldview, and beliefs in adulthood—and why that can make healthy habits difficult.
- Techniques to gain control over your brain chemistry and produce more “feel-good” chemicals in times of stress.
- The Due Justice Technique, a simple way to overcome complex generational trauma and anxiety regarding certain memories.
- Zero tolerance strategies to silence negative self-talk before it derails your journey.
Give that little you the childhood you should have had—and still deserve. Read Change What Happened to You and start on a new road of an abundant, empowered, and positive life.
Transactional analysis delineates three ego-states (Parent, Adult and Child) as the basis for the content and quality of interpersonal communication. “Happy childhood” notwithstanding, says Harris, most of us are living out the not OK feelings of a defenseless child wholly dependent on others (parents) for stroking and caring. At some stage early in our lives we adopt a “position” about ourselves and others that determines how we feel about everything we do. And for a huge portion of the population, that position is “I’m Not OK-You’re OK.” This negative “life position,” shared by successful and unsuccessful people alike, contaminates our rational adult capabilities, leaving us vulnerable to inappropriate, emotional reactions of our child and uncritically learned behavior programmed into our parent. By exploring the structure of our personalities and understanding old decisions, Harris believes we can find the freedom to change our lives.